a match made in heaven

i don't know how i left this out but yesterday was the day that i would like to refer to as 
"an act of god". say what you will - however i don't care. a woman and her footwear are a bond that very little shoe fanatics can understand. maybe this will touch some other peoples hearts, as much as it did MY OWN <3.


last couple of weeks i've been on the hunt for an "affordable" pair of said shoe. i've written about where to find them, but i am a really picky individual. * didn't want platform, didn't want sling back, didn't want open toe.  went to marshalls, tj maxx, dsw, payless (YES!) & charlotte rouse (close call there).UNSUCCESSFUL and quite disappointing. 


so as i said, "act of god" i went to kohls yesterday (the other heaven) something told me to look. and much to my surprise THEY WERE THERE! in size 6.5, 7, 9 and a 10 wat wahhhh :( the heart break continues. they were there and they were gorgeous.. and they didn't have my size! i walked away and just forgot about it but something kept telling me to scan the aisles and look some more until LIGHTBULB... 


i checked the size of the DISPLAY SHOE, and.....

Y A H T Z E E !

i think you know how this story ends!

word on the street...

so word about town is, everyone is down in the dumps.

1. we’ve got the rangers and knicks literally ripping our hearts out and dancing all over em’. i know the playoffs are taking a huge toll on the men in my life. 

2. we’ve got the ever so dreaded tax day that just passed and unless you’re getting any money back – well, your pissed!

3. that stupid tale of april showers, bringing may flowers. ah yah with a solid 2 days of rain under our belt, and apparently another week of it ahead... if it isn't the g'damn botanical gardens around here in may, i'm moving!

in short, i would go out on a limb here and say that everyone is a smidge up-tight.

here i was thinking that my spring trends update would cheer you all up and get everyone excited for SPRING.... epic fail huh?!

sadly i'm with you all - the only sun and warmth i've felt was in the tanning bed. however, i spent the morning getting pampered today and it was loooooong over do. 

if there is anything i can share with you it would be to "treat" yourself. and not with the holiday tomorrow! i don't mean treat yourself to have baskets of chocolate from the easter bunny i mean with some DYI spa and relaxtion! 

with short notice you may not able to book a massage today but read these tips from SELF magazine and give them a try and treat yourself to some homemade R & R :)

http://www.self.com/beauty/2011/04/spa-at-home-slideshow?mbid=enws_bty0419#slide=1

have a happy rest of your weekend dolls :)

it's 5 o'clock somewhere!

by urban dictionary definition happy hour is : "where the worst selling and nastiest tasting alcoholic beverages are sold for half price, to a bunch of alcoholics too drunk to notice." 

to that i say, BULLSH!T.

here the story goes.... about a month ago -  i was given a random day off ( shocker! ), my gal pals were on spring break and we had several options of what to do with our time. would it be the movies, lounging around watching a law & order marathon, hiking, going shopping or going to happy hour? so one thing led to another - eww no, not that. get your mind out of the gutter! 

we went to the hour of happy - i am almost ashamed to admit but this had been my first official experience. and unbeknown-st to me it was the greatest effing day of my week and for many weeks to come! sometimes around 4pm, while sitting at my desk, i foam at the mouth  thinking about how marvelous a margarita would be. whoops! perhaps that isn't normal but thats my cross to bare! 

now i'll be honest, with the shenanigans i'd be dealing with at work, that day was liable to be a "give my keys to the bartender and call my boyfriend to come pick me up" kinda experience! about an hour before hand i went shopping - per usual, i spent an obscene amount of money. so there was NO way, that my  "impulsive behavior" was just going to disappear. and so we truck on...

i arrive to this glorious festival and the place is seemingly mobbed. and of course in traditional stuck up fashion, i gasp - uh hello,  i'm in awe at all the crazy bitches who are drinking in the middle of the day! however i can't - and won't critize, i am now.... one of THEM. < 3

the were some barriers and i will admit they aren't a "real" problem at all, however this sort of debauchery lasted waaaaaaaaaaaaaay longer then an hour. this can't be LEGAL. and like i said, impulsivity could strike at any moment and with the group i was with - dancing on the bar and running down rt. 9 topless was practically on the menu along side the half price appetizers. according to wikipedia, happy hour is slang for a scheduled entertainment period. and by god, was that the most entertaining day of my "typical" work week. 

now before people go into uproar and say that i condone binge drinking... you're WRONG, thats what college was for. a nice cocktail mid day, really gets you loose and feeling lovely! in fact the creative juices DO flow better when your mind is free! if that isn't in a text book - then i'll be writing one soon! i know everyone has their own idea of a happy hour, but i've got to admit that almost dare devil aspect of drinking mid day NOT out of a solo cup in a backyard somewhere really had my attention and perhaps my membership consideration!

i'm sad to report since that time i have not gone back, my ridiculous schedule just won't allow it. but i hope you all have stories and comments to share with us about your happy hours and where we can find the BEST ONES! 

C H E E R S !

somethings about to bloom...

well LOTS of fantastic things are happening, we've got baseball season underway, finals and graduation, birthdays ( one very important one being mine )! no no i'm just kidding - but that being said spring is certainly on the WAY! 

for us new yorkers its truly a blessing in disguise. our winter was brutal and quite honestly march was awful too. and april, she's isn't panning out so well either! we had the "april fools" snow storm warning and that i will leave in the PAST. but yesterday it was 75 degrees! felt absolutely delicious, like florida! in true mother nature form... (bipolar form, for all of you who aren't aware!) today its cloudy and rainy. now there may be no leaves on the trees and no flowers in the garden BUT it's almost here !

and what better way to show it then in your clothing. i remember how some of my gals were complaining "its not time, we have nothing to wear, whats the point of shopping" well it's true! this in between seasons is the WORST! but cheer up dolls! 

it's time to retire the sweaters and put the damn ugg boots away ( that especially goes for me ) go get a pedi and bring in some platforms and wedges and BRIGHT colors. its certainly daunting and i know you think i'm lying to you, but lets step it up! FAKE IT TIL YOU MAKE IT, RIGHT?!

so please sit back and relax as i give you the go to spring fashion must haves!

1 - the "drapey" short...

 

i know many people frown upon shorts - i am one of them. i'm not talking "underwear" looking shorts - i'm talking; sleek and cute and even a lil baggy! shorts are not just for running anymore! so try this look and all you'll need to take this look from daytime to playtime is very simply with a necklace or even a change from flats to heels! stores from gap - old navy - forever 21 and my personal fave jc penny will have the perfect pair for you!

2 - espadrilles or wedges...

i think this shoe is CLASSIC. i remember my mom saying she wished she had kept hers from "back in the day". they are more versatile then you think : shorts, maxi dresses, even a cropped dress pant and skirts! dress it up or dress it down, i dont care, but wear the WEDGE ! 

another plus with this trend is combining 2 into 1... get it in nude - save some money and realize you can pair a nude shoe with "almost" everything in your closet. this will be my next "must have" purchase. i normally don't recommend shoe shopping online - it's a pain in the ass and shipping is annoying if it doesn't fit BUT look at what piperlime has to offer & see if you are into it! 

http://piperlime.gap.com/browse/category.do?cid=66762&tid=plembl5096&ev=PWMP3152011&di=56428481

3 - colorful dresses...

boy am i a sucker for a dress! i love little black dresses, suit dresses for work, sweater dresses, and the simple beach throw on dress! but the colorful - print embossed dress is so perfect & so spring! pair it with flats, heels - whatever you wish. but it is very low maintenance. the dress speaks for itself! many people steer away from a BOLD print but i think its edgy and makes a statement! we all can tell - the good and the evil of prints! 

i say the best place to look is online again, just get a feel for how daring you want to be! and of course stores like forever 21 will be CLUTCH for a good deal and a great piece but it is mind boggling shopping in there sometimes! and you all know i'm a sucker for TARGET. some of my favorite pieces are from there! check out targets collection of dresses. i promise you will NOT be disappointed. in fact, the dress i'm wearing in my picture on the side is the same dress from ABOVE and from TARGET. and it is indeed a COLORFUL DRESS! 

http://www.target.com/Prints-Patterns-Dresses-Clothing-Womens/b/ref=sc_iw_r_2_1_256138011?node=299234011

now ladies - don't go too crazy into trends and don't feel overwhelmed by what you see in every magazine. don't be afraid to be daring and try some new things out! but also keep in mind that you have to maintain your original sense of style HOWEVER perk it up and throw in some "oh my god, where did she get that" pieces. 

i'm a big believer in comfort and beauty. my personal style ranges from yoga pants and a mens white v-neck to a great dress and ballet flats. fashion is ever changing and you can be too. pick your favorites and incorporate them into your daily wardrobe. i know we are leery on when spring will officially arrive but if you pretend its here in your closet maybe thats better then nothing!

i hope enjoyed my "return blog" and that this piques your interest! more importantly i hope you hit the mall this weekend, okay i'll settle for you shopping online BUT add some of these trends to your closet! let it BLOOM thanks for reading dolls ; )