why do people continue to rain on THEIR OWN parade
& piss in THEIR OWN wheaties?!
i myself am guilty of having a day, hell a week, ooookay maybe a month!
geeze, i am human too!*remember that i always keep it 100% with you ;)*
i may go out of my way to take on too much, and take on new things. but all in good cause!
its that option for experience (even if it doesn't bring success) that fuels my fire because at least I tried! at least, it's under my belt now.
I. WILL. NOT.
i had this same conversation with my girl friends AND my guy friends where they have said people don't want to put themselves too far OUT there. it seems that maybe we keep ourselves at a distance from our own accomplishments because we fear facing doubt.
doubt is nobody's friend! where does it get us, it's just as bad as worrying! while its normal and natural it is NO good to keep around for too long! so every now and again, we find it to hard to get out of the "rut". i say why the hell are we in this "rut" in the first place!
if you don't try, you won't know! i would rather have done it knowing that i tried, then to have spent all my time wondering what could have happened. i know it's hard to give advice but it's even harder to take it!
i think part of growing and learning is being humble/ putting yourself out there for the sake of it. just because you may face defiance or negativity, doesn't mean you should sell yourself short - no matter what the case is - work, relationships, personal goals. now you have the knowledge that it can or can't be achieved...
fall down 10 times, get up 11.... RIGHT?!
so, please take the items below & throw'm away ;-)